child custody mediators (11 replies)
We have for over a year now….been going throught a custody battle….my fiances EX got remarried and ever since then has decided that their son is unstable going from her home to ours. Mind you though my step son is now 5 and i’ve been in his life for 4 years now…and his 2 parents have always worked it out so that they both had him equaly…he never had a chance to say that he missed mommy or daddy cause he did see both of them alot…but now that she’s married, she says he’s unstable…and his home should be hers and our he just visits…
Well this all led up to us going for custody so she couldn’t take days away fromus anymore….We have been through everything that is need as far as lawyers and court and now we have to go through a Mediator….We met this lady once in court for 2 hours or so…and from the get go we both could see that she was on the mothers side and never gave us a chance….we have to send emails back and forth now to communicate and they all get sent to this mediator as well and she can comment on whatever is being sent….It sems like we can do nothing in this woman eyes that is right and she has taken the mothers side on more than a few times…she’s threatened us with raiseing child support and has told us who we can and can’t have for friends…she made many threats and when we try to expalin our side, she tells us we’re being deffensive and if we didn’t have something to hide we wouldn’t need to make comments back…
We are so helpless right now and my step son has changed so much in the last couple of months…He’s violent with the other kids, he’s rude and he’s gotten to the fact that if he wants something we have to get it for him…and get it now. He never was like this when he was with us as much as her….and now we only see him tue. to wed. and every other thur. fri. and sat. This is so much less than what it used to be…..is there anyone that can lend a hand to help us….we don’t know where to go to report this lady or what we cando to stop what’s been going on…there are many other things that have gone on but this is already getting to be so long…..

